Most people live lives of quiet desperation. They never achieve what theyāre capable of or create the life they desire, because they believe itās dependent upon their circumstances.
Letās show you how to create the incredible life youāve always wanted, beyond your circumstances!
Why Changing your Circumstances to Change your Life is Ineffective
We spend our whole life trying to get the circumstances we think will make our life turn out the way we want it toā¦perfect, of course. Thatās definitely a backwards approach⦠#life backwards.
Itās frustrating, counter-productive, and totally ineffective.
Itās no wonder people end up desperate, when they try to create an amazing life that way! Thereās no power in living totally dependent on your circumstances.
What part of that approach has anything to do with consciously, deliberately creating your own life?!
Why Youāre Looking for Happiness in All the Wrong Places
A satisfying life is not dependent on having different circumstances⦠more money, a different house, a better car, a new location, a different wife, a better body, or anything thatās more, different, or better.
Look at all the people you know who have the best of circumstances, and are still miserable!
You have the ability, no matter what your circumstances, to transform the quality of your life, at any given moment!
What if you were born already wired to be happy, satisfied, and fulfilled, but youāre just looking in all the wrong places...your circumstances!
How To Create Your Life Consciously and Deliberately
You need to be 100% responsible for your own life, not be at the effect of your circumstances. You need to take a stand for the life you want to experience and take the responsibility for it appearing that way.
Your Reality is Who Youāre Being
You stand for it by who youāre Being. Your life is a reflection of who youāre being, where you put your attention, and the choices you make, and thatās all up to you.
Trying to change your circumstances, and āhopingā it all turns out, is a recipe for a very haphazard mediocre life! Identifying your circumstances as your ārealityā keeps you stuck in your current circumstances.
Your reality is consciously, deliberately, purposefully, intentionally created by you, and it can be anything you decide it to be.
Changing the Future Possibility for Your Life
Focus on who youāre being, and the future possibility you create for your life. Let your inner state of being reflect that, and it will show up in your external world. Extraordinary lives get created from the inside out.
Just knowing who you want to be, wonāt get you there. We get stuck in the knowing, rather than focusing on who weāre being. We get complacent because we figure we already know it, but knowing doesnāt create the experience of life weāre interested in creating.
An Example: Letās Get Healthy!
For exampleā¦youāve created the possibility of being fit, in great health, and maintaining a certain weight, and know to experience that, you must exercise and not eat crappy foods, and yet you donāt! Why? Because youāre not being that. You only know it!
If youāre not a smoker, do you get up in the morning and light up a cigarette?! NO, because who youāre being is not a smoker. If you are married, there are certain ways of being married. You donāt even have to think about how to be married. Itās quite evident when youāre not being married!
Jim Rohn said, āIf you want to have more, you need to be more.ā
Werner Erhard of EST fame said,āThe World occurs inside of our way of Being. The world presents itself as an opening for actions that are consistent with Being that way⦠All my actions, feelings, and thoughts flow from it!ā
The Missing Piece: Integrity
Landmark Education says Integrity doesnāt mean keeping your word, it means āhonoringā your word. It means doing what you say youāre going to do when you say youāre going to do it, and if you canāt keep your word, you immediately let the other person know.
It also means being who you need to be to create the future possibility and life youāve committed to, and if youāre not, then you need to restore your integrity.
Living Beyond Your Circumstances
Whatās a future possibility you can create for your life that will have you jumping out of bed in the morning, that will reach back into your present, regardless of your circumstances, and give you power and freedom?
Be 100% responsible for the quality of your experience of living. Live from the vision you have for your life, and the possibility youāve created, not itās circumstances! Be 100% committed.
How to Practice Choosing To Have The Life You Want
Most people get stimulated by some occurrence in their life and react on autopilot. Itās just a knee jerk reaction.
If you start to practice āpausingā right after being stimulated, rather than reacting, you will create an opportunity for deliberate conscious choice. This gives you the ability to experience a life of your own choosing, rather than creating more of the same life you already have.
Within that space of pausing is where change occurs. Practice choosing to live beyond your circumstances, in line with the life you consciously, deliberately want to experience! A life created based on your future possibility.
Practice choosingā¦Choose practicing.
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